I Will Not Tolerate It!

Jezebel:

Another woman’s husband is HER husband for a reason. SHE is to LOVE, HONOR and, CHERISH him. What you think of him really holds NO value whatsoever. Stop trying to cause dissensions within the family!

Fellow married ladies:

But avoid foolish disputes, genealogies, contentions, and strivings about the law; for they are unprofitable and useless. Reject a divisive man after the first and second admonition, knowing that such a person is warped and sinning, being self-condemned. Titus 3:9-11

Do not tolerate that woman Jezebel; she is poison to God’s children! Do not be deceived by the lies of men in the end times. They creep in and capture foolish women burdened in the midst of their failures; their sins. They entice through the lusts of the flesh. Be on your guard; do not allow them in your hearts, minds, homes, or look on with your eyes or else you will be one of their victims!

This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away. For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts, ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth. 2 Timothy 3:1-7

Ladies, love your husband; and if you don’t know how, learn to love them. This is pleasing to the Lord!

Lord, I pray for every woman who has a Jezebel in her life; a deceitful, manipulative, selfish woman who cares to achieve the lusts of the flesh and act as the serpent did in the garden. Her heart seeks only power, rank, and selfish ambitions. This is not to your glory! May you cover these women and send strength to those who are vulnerable. May we refuse any form of her godlessness in our homes. In Jesus name. Amen.

An Exhortation

If you are single and seeking; a married man or woman, no matter how unfortunate their circumstance, is not “the one”.

It’s not about you.

If they appear interested, it is not about you; they are longing for sweet intimacy with their spouse. They are not with you because their spouse is a horrible, uncaring person who doesn’t understand them; their marriage is under attack and you have the choice of whether or not to participate in their destruction by enticing and appealing to them.

Don’t be deceived.

The enemy wants nothing more than to separate such a holy union as marriage and he cares nothing for all involved in order to accomplish this.

The two of you are NOT compatible, God is NOT answering any prayers – this person is not “the one”; do not listen to these lies!

What God IS doing is investing time on helping to heal their marriage and strengthening them in their trials. His answer is to save their marriage, not let it die. You pursuing such a person is as working AGAINST the Father.

You are not more interesting, attractive, or fabulous than their spouse. While it may feel good to “feel in love” and that you are in someway helping this person – you are only filling a void for their spouse, not a place of desire for you. They are not in love with you.

You are only being used to seduce them; you are disposable and replaceable – your longings, fantasies, and loneliness are being used by the enemy. You are NOT meant to be with this person.

It “feels” so right.

I know, I know, the “feelings” are so strong. How could you “feel” such passionate “feelings” for someone and it not be right?! It doesn’t matter, it’s not about you.

Stop lying to yourself.

Step back, be honest with yourself, reflect on what you are doing to a family, perhaps to children if they have any, and to another man or woman. Why, also, would you want to do this to yourself? They promised to love, honor, be faithful to and cherish each other. Do you really want to destroy the hope of them doing so by being selfish? Walk away – run, even.

God loves you and He has a plan and purpose for your life: of building up, not tearing down; of family, not loneliness; of hope and not desperation and confusion.

Turn to Christ.

“Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.”

Matthew 19:4-6