Tell Me…

Tell me how any of my precious babes ruined my life because I didn’t go to college and don’t have a career. Tell me which one of my kids I should have started choosing abortion once life got more challenging. Tell me which one was an accident, a consequence, a mistake. Tell me.


Then why are we telling women this while they are pregnant? Why in the hell are we telling women that they are missing out on life when they find themselves pregnant? Why are we telling them that these babies are just tissue inside of their womb? Why are we telling women that it would be better to end the life of that child than to face the inevitable horror of being their parent (or choosing adoption).

I’m a better person than I once was because of the lessons I’ve learned as a parent. Has it been work? Has it been tiring? Has it been challenging? Has it been the hardest thing I’ve done at times? I’ll tell you.


But there is such a beauty in seeing life through the eyes of a little one. There is such beauty in seeing myself through the eyes of my child. Giving up everything for my child wasn’t as tragic a sacrifice as people claim because in giving up one thing, I said yes to another – and it was the greatest treasure that no job, amount of money, no relationship, no current crisis could take away from or add to.

You not only end the life of your child when you choose abortion, you end the life of a beautiful part of you that you will never know when you choose abortion.

There is nothing more precious than the gift of a child – not only for the life they’ll lead, but for the life you will lead with them in it.

Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him.” Psalm 127:3


“…There’s Grace for Abortions…”

As people who know me already are aware, I am deeply saddened by abortion. With all the petitions out there for defunding Planned Parenthood for their criminal activity, I feel this is too important to slip through without being said (more than once!). For anyone who has had an abortion and/or knows someone who’s had an abortion, there is no condemnation for those who seek to receive the grace of the Father.

I pray we all stay soft and tender to the hearts of those who’ve dealt with this as we stand for life. We stand for the lives of those who have already repented and grieved their decision and their unborn babe(s). We also stand for the lives of the doctors and counselors who’ve yet to realize the truth of what they are doing, and we stand for the lives of the women who are aborting their babies for their own personal reasons who’ve yet to understand the gravity of that decision. God is bigger than all of our past choices and meets us where we’re at – even meeting us with blood on our hands. There is grace and love available for all who seek to obey our Lord, Jesus Christ, as we “go, and from now on sin no more.” May God grant us all repentance and free us from the bondage of our sins.

Please click on the image below to read the article titled, “Dear Sister, There’s Grace for Abortions Too”

Dear Sister, There's Grace for Abortions


Please keep talking about what’s happening inside Planned Parenthood. Their criminal activity should not continue to be funded by our taxpayer dollars. How can we support gender selected abortions, covering up child sexual abuse (of which I have my own experience, with Planned Parenthood), aiding human sex trafficking of minors and prostitutes, as well as harvesting the organs of aborted babies and selling them? How is Planned Parenthood upholding the law and helping to protect our children? We don’t need Planned Parenthood! There are thousands of community health centers located throughout the US that offer the same and more than what Planned Parenthood offers that actually follow the law and care about the health and safety of women and children:

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Planned Parenthood is corrupt. I don’t support abortion and would like it to be illegal because of the reality of what is happening – living babies who are aware are being torn limb from limb and getting their brains sucked out of their skulls, are being poisoned, or are burned to death… and many are surviving and being left to die alone in steel dishes, trash cans, etc. However, even if abortion is kept legal, Planned Parenthood should not be allowed to stay open (or at the very least, should not be funded by the taxpayer dollars so those of us who are opposed to their illegal activities and abortion are no longer financing such atrocities). #defundplannedparenthood

Gianna Jessen

“Gianna Jessen does not quit. Giving up is not an option to her. Gianna has what she refers to as the “gift” of Cerebral Palsy. She weighed a mere 2 lbs at birth and the doctors said she would never be able to hold up her head, sit up, crawl or walk. She began to walk by the age of three years old with the help of leg braces and a walker.

Gianna doesn’t believe that her Cerebral Palsy takes away her life, but, rather, enriches it. . . she walks with a slight limp today and runs marathons. On April 30, 2005 she completed her first 26.2 mile marathon after running just over 7 hours and was presented with the coveted blank blank award! On April 23, 2006 she completed the London Marathon as well. She is now determined to run marathons all over the place, because she was never supposed to even walk!

Gianna understands the plight of orphans, being one herself. She was placed into the foster care system early on in life, eventually being taken into the loving home of a woman named Penny. Penny has been a mother to 56 foster children in her life. Gianna was later adopted by Penny’s daughter, making Penny Gianna’s grandmother. According to Gianna, Penny saved her life.

Gianna is a Christian. Her life was given to her by the grace of God. She shouldn’t be walking, but more miraculous still; she should not even be alive. Gianna’s biological mother was 17 when she had a saline abortion in her third trimester. Many Americans don’t realize it is legal to have an abortion throughout all nine months of pregnancy. After being burned alive for approximately 18 hours in the womb from the saline solution, Gianna was delivered alive in a Los Angeles County abortion clinic. Her medical records state, “born during saline abortion”…this is what caused her Cerebral Palsy.

Gianna’s travels and experiences have led her all over the world. Her life has been covered by many major news media outlets, including, most recently, the BBC News and World Radio, Sky News, and The Good Morning Show in England, reaching many people with a message of hope and conviction. In November 2005, Gianna spoke in several colleges all over Ireland and in December of the same year, spoke at a meeting held at the House of Commons in London. She has returned to England this year to speak in several parochial and public high schools. Gianna’s audiences include: churches – church youth crusades and women’s ministry retreats; various corporations as a motivational speaker; secular and Christian youth organizations and schools – middle school age through college, as well as several times before Congress – most recently having her testimony read before the Supreme Court in Carhart v. Gonzales”

Gianna Jessen’s biography

37 years ago, the Supreme Court decision was made that a woman had the right to her own body. What about Gianna Jessen’s right to hers? What about the rights of the women who survived their own abortions and were not given aid? What about the women who were burned alive, suffocated, dismembered, had their brains crushed, and so on? What about their rights to their own bodies? What about the men? Aren’t we equal?

The problem with our nation, isn’t the babies or “accidental pregnancies.” No the problem lies with this people who have gotten to this place of self-righteousness, worldly success, selfishness, arrogance, and greed – that they don’t want babies unless it’s “convenient.” The problem lies with the closed eyes because it IS too hard to even read what is ACTUALLY being done and it SHOULD be! The problem lies with the parents failing to take responsibility in raising their children up in the way of the Lord so they feel enough love from God and their parents that they don’t reach out for cheap thrills. The problem lies with the boys who’ve turned into men that don’t know how to love a woman because they have not been taught or trained respect and the women who don’t respect men because they’ve never been taught or trained that they themselves are worthy of love. The problem lies with the women who are more concerned with a career than the future of their children. The problem lies with the father who is afraid of responsibility and abandons their young children. The problem lies with the fact that MEN don’t have a right to their OWN CHILD while in the womb yet they are EXPECTED to step up once the child is BORN. The problem lies with the mindset that women are so freakin’ great that the life of a child doesn’t matter.

BUT IT DOES! That child’s life MATTERS!!!

We have become a rebellious nation, kicking and screaming against the guidelines of God like toddlers as if it’s nothing – but OPEN YOUR EYES at the world we live in!! Look at the rise in rate of acceptance for divorce, abortion, homosexuality, promiscuity, rebellion, and dishonor for parents as if these things are just a natural part of what life is! These things have become more acceptable because of our rejection of God’s Truth and ultimately the rejection of Christ.

“But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God— having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with them.

They are the kind who worm their way into homes and gain control over weak-willed women, who are loaded down with sins and are swayed by all kinds of evil desires, always learning but never able to acknowledge the truth. Just as Jannes and Jambres opposed Moses, so also these men oppose the truth—men of depraved minds, who, as far as the faith is concerned, are rejected. But they will not get very far because, as in the case of those men, their folly will be clear to everyone.” 2 Timothy 3:1-9

“When they sin against you—for there is no one who does not sin—and you become angry with them and give them over to the enemy, who takes them captive to his own land, far away or near; and if they have a change of heart in the land where they are held captive, and repent and plead with you in the land of their conquerors and say, ‘We have sinned, we have done wrong, we have acted wickedly’; and if they turn back to you with all their heart and soul in the land of their enemies who took them captive, and pray to you toward the land you gave their fathers, toward the city you have chosen and the temple I have built for your Name; then from heaven, your dwelling place, hear their prayer and their plea, and uphold their cause. And forgive your people, who have sinned against you; forgive all the offenses they have committed against you, and cause their conquerors to show them mercy; for they are your people and your inheritance, whom you brought out of Egypt, out of that iron-smelting furnace.” 1 Kings 8:46-51

“Dear friends, I urge you, as aliens and strangers in the world, to abstain from sinful desires, which war against your soul. Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us.” 1 Peter 2:11-12

Near His Heart…

“But for Adam there was not found a helper comparable to him. And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall on Adam, and he slept; and He took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh in its place. Then the rib which the LORD God had taken from man He made into a woman, and He brought her to the man.” Genesis 2:18, 21-22

Commentator, Matthew Henry states, “That the woman was made of a rib out of the side of Adam; not made out of his head to rule over him, nor out of his feet to be trampled upon by him, but out of his side to be equal with him, under his arm to be protected, and near his heart to be beloved.”

How much more so should we cherish our babies who are fashioned at the very center of our being.

“For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place. When I was woven together in the depths of the earth, your eyes saw my unformed body. All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.” Psalm 139:12-16

“From birth I was cast upon you; from my mother’s womb you have been my God.” Psalm 22:10

“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart…” Jeremiah 1:5

Choosing abortion is choosing to destroy what God has created.

“He Heals the Brokenhearted”

“About 1 in 3 American women will have had an abortion by the time she reaches age 45.” Guttmacher Institute

“93% of women regret their abortion.” David C. Reardon, Aborted Women: Silent No More

Symptoms of Post-Abortion Trauma reported by Rachel’s Vineyard:
*Bouts of crying
*Inability to forgive yourself
*Intense grief/sadness
*Emotional numbness
*Sexual problems or promiscuity
*Eating disorders
*Lowered self esteem
*Drug and alcohol abuse
*Nightmares and sleep disturbances
*Suicidal urges
*Difficulty with relationships
*Anxiety and panic attacks
*Multiple Abortions
*Pattern of repeat crisis pregnancy
*Discomfort around babies or pregnant women
*Fear/ambivalence of pregnancy

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“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” Psalm 147:3

“I will not turn away the punishment thereof; because they have ripped up the women with child.” Amos 1:13